tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post7251783815276202499..comments2024-03-09T02:32:34.549-06:00Comments on Dr. Melissa Clouthier: Men Are Simple--UPDATEDMelissa Clouthierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15864991953502438461noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-30379698666939820472009-05-20T21:33:59.086-06:002009-05-20T21:33:59.086-06:00sex520免費電影免費ava片線上看xo7777 netxo7777 netxo7777 netx...<A HREF="http://sex.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex520免費電影</A><A HREF="http://eee6.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">免費ava片線上看</A><A HREF="http://eee8.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee15.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee11.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee14.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee7.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee16.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee10.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee13.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee9.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://eee12.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xo7777 net</A><A HREF="http://xxx183.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx38.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx18.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx3.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx383.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx883.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx188.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx888.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx83.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://xxx133.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">xxx383視訊</A><A HREF="http://sex1.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex520免費影片</A><A HREF="http://sex2.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex520免費影片</A><A HREF="http://sex3.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex4.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex5.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex520免費影片</A><A HREF="http://sex6.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex7.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex8.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex9.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://sex10.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">sex888影片分享區</A><A HREF="http://eee17.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">qq美美色網影片</A><A HREF="http://eee18.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">qq美美色網免費看</A><A HREF="http://eee19.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">qqgirl美美色網情</A><A HREF="http://eee20.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">qq美美色網</A><A HREF="http://eee21.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">aaaaa片俱樂部影片</A><A HREF="http://eee22.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">aaaaa片俱樂部影片</A><A HREF="http://eee23.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">aaaaa片俱樂部影片</A><A HREF="http://eee24.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">qq美美色網影片</A><A HREF="http://eee25.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">ss383a片免費下載</A><A HREF="http://eee26.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">dv影視</A><A HREF="http://eee27.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee28.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee29.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee30.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee31.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee32.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee33.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A><A HREF="http://eee34.teams.org.tw" REL="nofollow">hh</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-76128996087407279482008-04-10T12:54:00.000-06:002008-04-10T12:54:00.000-06:00christopher taylor, no, but you did say: "unusuall...christopher taylor, no, but you did say: "unusually insightful for a woman." This seems to imply that normally the men are more insightful. If that was implied, than it is a sexist statement to make.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-33271121232220597732008-04-10T10:07:00.000-06:002008-04-10T10:07:00.000-06:00That made me laugh out loud.I hope so. I didn't m...<I>That made me laugh out loud.</I><BR/><BR/>I hope so. I didn't mean it sexist, I meant "you did great understanding men as a woman" just as any man would be amazing to write an equally insightful version about women.<BR/><BR/>After all, I didn't say<BR/>"extraordinarily fine work for a woman." like you quoted.<BR/><BR/>If it sounded sexist, I meant it as a compliment. But then, this is a perfect example of the reason men and women fight, eh?Christopher R Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03104605722684911443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-81411937227492048622008-04-09T21:30:00.000-06:002008-04-09T21:30:00.000-06:00One of the things a man needs is approval. Not fai...One of the things a man needs is approval. <BR/>Not fainting or swooning over how the dishwasher works again, but a nod of well done now and then.<BR/>The reason we men build (pay for) stuff is so that women will enjoy them and grant us approval vis a vie sex or a look of 'wow that's cool how he did that'.<BR/>The other thing a man needs is a motherly 'there there' once in a while. I think its akin to returning to the corner of the boxer's ring and having someone look after your cuts and gouges.<BR/>Provide those things for me, and no privation, no hardship, no discomfort will stop me from wading in to get the job (make cave woman happy) done. I may posture in front of the fire, but that itself is a manifestation of thank you.<BR/>Long story short:<BR/>Sex, food and approval will purchase maximum effort with a good attitude.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-78863021442944093732008-04-09T15:46:00.000-06:002008-04-09T15:46:00.000-06:001.Keep the mystery alive = please stop asking so...1.Keep the mystery alive = please stop asking so many damned questions. <BR/>2. Call rarely = I need to watch the road when I'm driving.<BR/>3. Retreat from conflict = I can not win arguing with you.<BR/>4. Don't expect your spouse to meet your sexual needs = Discussing sex is a minefield I don't want to get into. <BR/>5. Spend more time on interests that don't include your spouse = less time for disagreements.<BR/>6. Don't change = take it or leave it, but stop trying to fix me.<BR/>7. Don't apologize = watch for an opening to let me make amends.<BR/>8. Don't give tokens of affection = stop inventing new ways to make me feel guilty.<BR/>9. Ignore special dates = what is so special about the passing of an arbitrary amount of time????<BR/>10. Stop saying I love you = actions speak louder than words.doctorfixithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10479534411467280677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-12973175797706441792008-04-09T12:23:00.000-06:002008-04-09T12:23:00.000-06:00Christopher Taylor,"Extraordinarily fine work for ...Christopher Taylor,<BR/><BR/>"Extraordinarily fine work for a woman"....<BR/><BR/>That made me laugh out loud.<BR/><BR/>Oze,<BR/><BR/>I think that's good advice both ways. Nothing like getting something done and then having it reverse engineered by a "helpful" spouse.Melissa Clouthierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15864991953502438461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-5153481384810922342008-04-09T11:19:00.000-06:002008-04-09T11:19:00.000-06:00I would add this:Either tell me how you want it do...I would add this:<BR/><BR/>Either tell me how you want it done, or leave me alone to do it my way.<BR/><BR/>Don't complain if, when I do it my way, you don't like it and would have done it differently.<BR/><BR/>Then, you should have done it yourself in the first place!Ozehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11826674150043587675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-86505100428497210322008-04-09T10:32:00.000-06:002008-04-09T10:32:00.000-06:00Extraordinarily fine work, and unusually insightfu...Extraordinarily fine work, and unusually insightful for a woman. Men are simple, women are not. The problem for women understanding men is that they expect complications where there aren't any. They look for the byzantine, incomprehensible, and irrational way they view life in how men do, and not finding it, they consider men mysterious.<BR/><BR/>Women need plausible deniability to protect themselves <I>I didn't really mean that</I>. Men come at you straight, typically able to protect themselves from what comes at them. Except emotionally, from which we use silence, rage, and distance to protect ourselves.<BR/><BR/>It's not that tough to work out men. We are what we say. We say what we mean - until you train us with rage, confusion, hurt, and punishment to do otherwise. Then you get mad at us for lying.Christopher R Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03104605722684911443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-21522215080096458152008-04-09T09:33:00.000-06:002008-04-09T09:33:00.000-06:00David Marcoe,There was a reason I said there are s...David Marcoe,<BR/><BR/>There was a reason I said there are some things you can do to "help" a person be happy. No one can make anyone else happy. We can try. We can do everything in our power, but the other person must decide to be happy--or not.Melissa Clouthierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15864991953502438461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-3060665856354113462008-04-09T06:39:00.000-06:002008-04-09T06:39:00.000-06:00meet my needs!= divorcemeet my needs!= divorceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-90154796180907461822008-04-09T05:34:00.000-06:002008-04-09T05:34:00.000-06:00I agreed with your translations more than the orig...I agreed with your translations more than the original article. I guess that's a failing on my part (go Asperger Syndrome!).<BR/><BR/>Frankly, though, there's some more things I would like to add:<BR/><BR/>Don't doll yourself up every day. Most guys actually quite hate it how a woman spends an hour or more in the bathroom getting dressed up on a daily basis. If we liked you for the makeup, we'd buy it ourselves and put it on a blow up doll. We think you are attractive without the makeup.<BR/><BR/>Don't wear high heels on a daily basis. I have yet to meet a man that actually thinks high heels are sexy. Fact is, they were originally worn by men. Then, we realized how uncomfortable they were, and got rid of them. When I see a woman wearing high heels every day, I can't help but feel intellectually superior.<BR/><BR/>I can't speak for all guys, but I personally think you are at your sexiest when you are covered in sweat after going on a jog/run with me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-24223662622936329582008-04-09T04:25:00.000-06:002008-04-09T04:25:00.000-06:00"You said to be 1) Agreeable--what if we don't agr..."You said to be 1) Agreeable--what if we don't agree?"<BR/><BR/>Then respect our point of view, try to see it our way, and present a calm, logical answer.<BR/><BR/>The way I see it, above all things, it is my responsibility to see to the happiness of my wife (hypothetically; I'm not married), before my own ever enters my mind. It is my job to bare as much suffering as possible to protect her from it. That isn't to say I become a door mat or coddle her, but the man who sits around complaining what his wife is or isn't doing is not acting as a proper husband. (Saying this to other men) Our ancestors bore far more hardship with far more grace than we are ever likely to see, so man up, stand up, and shoulder your load.<BR/><BR/>Oh, and if I say "nothing," it's likely I am thinking about too many things at once to give a proper account.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-51491351439062122462008-04-08T21:14:00.000-06:002008-04-08T21:14:00.000-06:00act like you want or enjoy sex? ACT like you want ...act like you want or enjoy sex? ACT like you want or enjoy sex. seriously? i feel so sorry for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-45997058260582388682008-04-08T14:36:00.000-06:002008-04-08T14:36:00.000-06:00Anon,You said to be 1) Agreeable--what if we don't...Anon,<BR/><BR/>You said to be 1) Agreeable--what if we don't agree?Melissa Clouthierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15864991953502438461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19646581.post-58747619454250115272008-04-08T14:32:00.000-06:002008-04-08T14:32:00.000-06:00I think the explanation for #1 belongs on #2. The...I think the explanation for #1 belongs on #2. The last 3 all go together: basically, from a guy's point of view, the less importance placed on "symbolic" actions and dates, the better. Guys don't have much patience with symbolism. They prefer to be simple and direct in their relationships. Want your man to know you love him? There are three things to do: Be (1) Agreeable, (2) Companionable, and (3) Available (enthusiastically, if possible). That's all a guy needs! (Even food is overrated.) Now, if women could put THEIR needs into simple, straightforward, concrete terms, we'll be getting somewhere! :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com