Thursday, October 18, 2007

He's Engaged, What Should I Do?

My brother sent me this link to a woman asking for this advice:

I am a 21-year-old female who has been having a secret affair with my boss for the past two years. When I met him he was single, but now he is engaged. He wants to continue the affair, and as embarrassing as it is to admit, I also want to continue being with him. Deep down I feel that I love him, and the way I see it, I'd rather have some of him than nothing.

I have tried to end things with him a couple of times before, but I always end up back with him. I know that working together doesn't help me at all because he often flirts with customers, and, of course, I get jealous.

It has come to a point where I am almost 100 percent sure he is messing with another co-worker. I know something's wrong with me for wanting to be with him, but it's just so hard for me to let go!

Is this woman a feminist? Should she change her behavior? Why should she stop if she's happy?

And what advice would you give?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Feminist? Not sure what thay has to do with it. What is feminist about being stupid?

She needs to move on, quit her job if she has because she's having so much trouble breaking it off now.

Could be the boss is tired of her anyway. Men will let something like this go on forever rather than dump someone.

She needs to see what a chump she's being, feel humiliated, and cut him loose.

Been through things like this myself when I was young, and fortunately had enough job sense to just walk away from the guy.

Anonymous said...

This woman is only 21 years old and I hope that she would have the strength to leave and find a happy life for herself. It is painful, I'm sure, but she is so young and has her entire life ahead of her.

Getting entangled like this is difficult because more often than not there are deeper issues than just having an affair. I would hope she would have someone in her life that she could talk with and be 100% open and honest without any fear at all. That in itself can be a great motivator to look at life a bit differently...with more hope and appreciation.

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