My brother sent me this link to a woman asking for this advice:
I am a 21-year-old female who has been having a secret affair with my boss for the past two years. When I met him he was single, but now he is engaged. He wants to continue the affair, and as embarrassing as it is to admit, I also want to continue being with him. Deep down I feel that I love him, and the way I see it, I'd rather have some of him than nothing.Is this woman a feminist? Should she change her behavior? Why should she stop if she's happy?
I have tried to end things with him a couple of times before, but I always end up back with him. I know that working together doesn't help me at all because he often flirts with customers, and, of course, I get jealous.
It has come to a point where I am almost 100 percent sure he is messing with another co-worker. I know something's wrong with me for wanting to be with him, but it's just so hard for me to let go!
And what advice would you give?